Friday, March 20, 2009

Dig a Little Deeper

The same old questions make first, second, and third dates feel stale.

Dig deeper to learn more about your date with this question: "Tell me something hardly anyone knows about you."

Not only will you learn something less superficial about your date, but by paying attention to HOW they answer the question, you'll learn even more about WHO they are!

Like:
- Are they evasive?
- Do they give the question an honest shot? Or do you get some surface level answer?
- Are they comfortable opening up a little?
- What kinds of things do they tend to keep to themselves?

Of course, offer to share your own answer to the question, too!

Real connection is about getting below the surface- so open up a little with an invitation to go deeper! And see where it takes you!

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